Undoubtedly, a tour of duty in paradise is one of
the most coveted assignments for all branches of the
Armed Forces. But while first visions of the Aloha
State bring to mind images of sandy beaches, tropical
skies, balmy weather and friendly locals, life on
these idyllic islands can also prove challenging, not
only for you, but for family members as well.
Without a doubt, Hawaii is a recreational paradise.
With beautiful year-round climate, warm
ocean waters, sandy beaches, mountains, forests,
parks and other facilities, there is something for
everyone to enjoy.
Many community and government leaders in
Hawaii appreciate all that military members do
for the state and the country. Every May, the state
celebrates its military with Military Appreciation
Month. Myriads of discounts and events are held
by private businesses and government facilities.
Upon arrival, you will be considered "malihini,"
which is Hawaiian for "visitor" and is applied to
newcomers and tourists. Long-time residents and
those born in Hawaii are called "Kama'aina,"
which means "child of the land."
It is not an insult to be called malihini, but it
is a distinction that allows locals, kama'aina, to
help newcomers and visitors become familiar
with the lifestyle and culture of Hawaii. So,
how do you become a kama'aina? Some people
say when you get your first Hawaii driver's
license; eat kimchee with chopsticks; start collecting
aloha shirts and only wear ties and
formal wear when required by duty; Understand
directions: "mauka" (toward the mountain),
"makai" (toward the ocean), "Diamond
Head" and "Ewa" (toward the beach); say
"shave ice" instead of snow cone; understand
basic Hawaiian pidgin such as puka, talk story
and da kine; know how to make the "shaka" hand
sign; or order saimin with Spam instead of
chicken noodle soup.
Nobody knows for sure when you become a
kama'aina. It just happens after a while. You'll
know when because you'll feel right at home.
Kama'aina status also qualifies you for special
discounts, or "kama'aina rates," in Hawaii with
airlines, rental car agencies and getaway weekends
at neighbor island resorts. All you have to
do is prove you live here—a Hawaii driver's
license will do fine, or any identification with
your new home address.